So sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend.
Some people say that it's easier to let go when you're aware ahead of time, because of an illness...you still have hopes for them to get better, but it gives you time to prepare for the worse. But I don't think it makes a lot of difference. Nothing can really prepare anyone for when they are actually gone and reality of it sets in. Maybe sometimes it helps to think that the person who was ill isn't suffering any longer, but we still can't help think about ourselves...how do we live without that person.
Anyway, you can bet I will be saying prayers for his family that they can find the strength to get through this tough time and for you too, because I hate the thought of a good friend being sad.
Big hugs to you Kat,
Lisa
