Dearest Alan,
Please know my thoughts are with you right now. It must be so terribly sad and yet a blessing to know that your brother Paul will suffer not another day and has found a peace that eluded him in this life. To have such an incredibly caring family that loved him and stood by him I can only imagine was his greatest fortune.
I will pray for your parents to be lifted from their deepest sorrow and for you Alan and your brothers and sister too. And I will pray for Julian.
Wish I could give you the longest hug.
Love,
Melinda