WOW!!!!

Yes it seems like you are in a tough boat.

I know several people here face this issue whether it is man/woman.

I don't condone lying or trying to make yourself something you are not especially online but the one thing that stuck out to me was maybe when you find someone that you feel a connection with take some time to get to know them and let them get to know you.

If I were looking online for someone and was hit with all that with someone I had just begun to have a relationship I would probly bolt too.

If we started talking and over time things were brought in casually it might help.

If someone doesn't want to get to know you then they are not worth you or your time, would you really want a relationship with someone like that?

Maybe quit putting yourself down, write down some positive qualities that you have.

One thing I have learned is love can come out of no where when you least expect it.

Good luck!

Lisa

Speak kindly, Live simply, Care deeply, Love generously, and BLAH, HA, HA, LOUDLY! every chance you get.