I don't mean to be crass or offend anyone because it's not easy finding someone special even when you're in good health. However I would think there's a huge demand for a dating / looking for love and friendship website for people with illnesses or disabilities of one kind or another, somewhere where you feel comfortable about telling people you have something wrong. They may well exist already and I know nothing much about setting one up or getting publicity but there are a lot of people here who seem to be experts on computers and who want to help others. Could a group of you get together in cyber-space to set something up?