Zaida, welcome!
Try to look at the situation the other way around ....... there are people who stay undiagnosed for veeeeeeery long, but you know what you are facing which gives you a great advantage in the match. I was glad when I finally knew I had AS because until then it was just "everyone has some pain in their back, it is just aging" which didnt help a bit. Now I know and I can seek help and docs know and can help.
I am just having a hard week myself, luckily my husband supports me a took great care of me and the kids, but my doc could help so I hope I am over the worst this time.
Wish you all the best, dont give up and keep your life, it may be a bit harder at times, but sure is worth it!
