He's just turned 37 & was a painter/decorator - there's not much work around here for him where we've moved too - but I've told him that i don't mind if he doesn't work - just want him to enjoy his fishing & diving + riding his bike while his body is still allowing him to (he can only do these things when he's feeling okay) - I honestly do everything possible to make his life easier, but sometimes I just don't know what more I can do - he's on meds etc... but needs to change them I think - I am going to research some of the meds people are on here & see if we can discuss these options next Doc visit (when he gets off his behind to make one) !! Has been a rollercoaster ride for too many years ......