Hi Julz, Godness you deserve a medal!!
How does that old saying go??? You have to be cruel to be kind. All while you give, he will take because that's the easy way. And while you are doing all the running round dealing with it all, he dont have to.
The more you let him, the more he will wollow in his own self pitty.
Yes this is a shocking disease, but that dosn't give him or any of us the right to drag our loved ones down, We need their support but we dont treat them like our personal doormat. It is time to give him "the talk" Has he ever met anybody else with AS?? That's a huge help. I hope you will be able to get him to look at this site, It may also make a big difference to his attitude, There are so many people here that can help him.
We all visit the dark place, but we all get off our @#$% and get on with it again.
Go make you're self a cuppa & put you're feet up, you need a rest.
The AS family are here for you both.
Mez
