Thanks for the comments. It's always so wonderful to have the support of folks who go through the same problems/worries. One of my friends on Facebook has been struggling with the same question.
I think the Apostle Paul summed it up well when he said "Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife." Don't go looking/seeking/stressing after relationships. He goes on later to say that if someone develops an attachment to another, by all means get married. This is exactly how I think about AS and marriage. Don't go looking, but if an attachment and understanding develops after you have been completely open and honest, then it's not a bad thing. It was meant to be.
I think the ideal match might be someone else who goes through similar health struggles. But then again...I wonder if I could put up with hearing my own problems.
