It's a great jerk filter in the dating arena - - and jerks as we all know come in the female and male variety. Find out right away their level of empathy, patience, understanding. I found a non jerk whose main worry was whether or not people died from this AS thing, and I was happy to reassure them that much as we may feel like rolling over from time to time, the illness itself is seldom fatal. And oh, those massages
And you have a ready made excuse for NOT doing the things you don't want to do, you can explain (regretfully) that, "Sorry, I'm not allowed to bungee jump any more." Or ride rollercoasters (always hated those things) or sky dive
Cheryl
My guy
If you can't be a good example you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning. Jennifer Cruisie
Dogs mean it when they kiss you
