Hi again,
Just had to write while the realtor is poking around my house doing the assement on my home to put in on he market. Can you believe how quickly this all is happening?
I was told by an attorney from the disability law unit not to sign the papers, but if I don't, that'll only makes things harder for Eric.
He has to bring the papers to the court tomorrow showing that we put it on the market. Then he has to sign into the jail by 6:30.
I have never seen anything like this before.
My caseworker was here today. It wasn't a planned visit, but she was up this way and decided to take a ride to come see me. She was almost in tears. She has become a good friend.
I can't believe that Eric's ex is going to get paid three times after all this is over. Welfare paid her in the early 90's and at the same time Eric was paying her $300 a week which the state didn't know about and now this. No wonder she is rich.
Because welfare isn't doing anything because the statute of limitations has run out, the court won't allow it in the court. This is our proof and will show not only do we not owe it, but will say something about her charactor.
They won't look at her finances, because they say it doesn't matter what she has. But we are asking them to because it will show that she is lying, because she is saying she is poor and has no money. They just won't listen to us.
She just has so much hate in her and greed.
I have tried to be nice and reason with her, but it doesn't work. She honestly gets psychotic!
I don't talk mean about anyone, I am not like that. I am just stating the truth and how she gets for whatever reasons.
She tried to have me evicted from my apartment 6 months after Eric and I started dating and she didn't even know me. I never seen her before or her me. I couldn't believe anyone could try to put a single mom with her young kids out on the street for doing nothing to her.
Ok, the realtor just left, she was a really nice lady. She said she would do her best to try and make this as painless as possible. She really liked the house and everything we have done to it. I put a lot of love and care into my home and thought this was it...I was never moving again!
Oh well! Everything happens for a reason right? Maybe I was meant to be some place else.
I am going to try to answer some of the replies to my post later on.
Just wanted you all to know what was going on.
I am really sorry to ramble like I am and I hope you guys don't mind. I am just trying to do everything that I think will keep me strong enough to deal with this and not allow myself to get depressed. Writing to you guys seemed like I good idea because you guys always keep me going.
My caseworker told me today that she knew I would land on my feet after this like I always do, but she knows the in between can be difficult.
Hugs to you all,
Lisa
