Brad, you are wonderful. Thank you for this. I know it must have cost you a great deal in terms of pain, but the pain of not speaking out must have been worse.
I echo your sentiments about Mig, by the way, which she knows full well. I feel very safe in her more than capable leading hands, and know that KA will continue on from this a better and stronger (thank you Adam) family.
Now, go give your rheumy hell, allow your parents to look after their son, and look after yourself. I'm so sorry that you are feeling horrible and more than sorry that this bust-up has caused you more pain.
In a backhanded sort of way, it was comforting to see in this the passion and love we all feel about KA. We were fighting for our family, yes? Even tho we don't all always agree.
Warm hugs,