Hi there,

I think if you called and left a message of support/comfort that may be enough for now. When I lost my father, everything was moving so fast with helping my mother/travel/getting things together I did not have a lot of free time.

I stayed with my mother for a month and I can say that after 1-2 months things really change... the first couple of months a lot of people are offering help and checking up... then it goes very much back to normal and the adjustment really starts to hit as the void of the loss really starts to sink in.

If you do not hear back, I would allow some time for healing and call your friend after it has been a month... that may be when he needs you the most.

Take care,

Tim

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