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#243581 11/17/06 12:55 AM
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Hi again,
Just had to write while the realtor is poking around my house doing the assement on my home to put in on he market. Can you believe how quickly this all is happening?
I was told by an attorney from the disability law unit not to sign the papers, but if I don't, that'll only makes things harder for Eric.
He has to bring the papers to the court tomorrow showing that we put it on the market. Then he has to sign into the jail by 6:30.

I have never seen anything like this before.

My caseworker was here today. It wasn't a planned visit, but she was up this way and decided to take a ride to come see me. She was almost in tears. She has become a good friend.

I can't believe that Eric's ex is going to get paid three times after all this is over. Welfare paid her in the early 90's and at the same time Eric was paying her $300 a week which the state didn't know about and now this. No wonder she is rich.
Because welfare isn't doing anything because the statute of limitations has run out, the court won't allow it in the court. This is our proof and will show not only do we not owe it, but will say something about her charactor.
They won't look at her finances, because they say it doesn't matter what she has. But we are asking them to because it will show that she is lying, because she is saying she is poor and has no money. They just won't listen to us.
She just has so much hate in her and greed.
I have tried to be nice and reason with her, but it doesn't work. She honestly gets psychotic!
I don't talk mean about anyone, I am not like that. I am just stating the truth and how she gets for whatever reasons.
She tried to have me evicted from my apartment 6 months after Eric and I started dating and she didn't even know me. I never seen her before or her me. I couldn't believe anyone could try to put a single mom with her young kids out on the street for doing nothing to her.
Ok, the realtor just left, she was a really nice lady. She said she would do her best to try and make this as painless as possible. She really liked the house and everything we have done to it. I put a lot of love and care into my home and thought this was it...I was never moving again!
Oh well! Everything happens for a reason right? Maybe I was meant to be some place else.
I am going to try to answer some of the replies to my post later on.
Just wanted you all to know what was going on.
I am really sorry to ramble like I am and I hope you guys don't mind. I am just trying to do everything that I think will keep me strong enough to deal with this and not allow myself to get depressed. Writing to you guys seemed like I good idea because you guys always keep me going.
My caseworker told me today that she knew I would land on my feet after this like I always do, but she knows the in between can be difficult.

Hugs to you all,
Lisa


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Lisa, I still can't believe that this is on your plate!

It is unheard of! I have never met or heard of another woman being so cruel to another person. I just can't get my head around it! This woman must be so bitter and ugly with the hate that is eating away at her. I just can't believe it!

You continue to be in my heart, and I will just pray that somehow this will all come out to the good for you and Eric. Perhaps.....just perhaps, it will stop before you lose your house.

Still shaking my head,
Rita

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Lisa,

Im sending you some of my strength and you are in my prayers. I am so sorry you are going through this but keep the strength goin and it seems like you have a great outlook...remember that..

*hugs*

marnie


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Lisa,

I have been so upset about this all week...

Is there anything any of us can do? You said you talked to Steve, is there anything you can do to have a "stay" or hold off until you get proof?

Where are you guys going to move to?

Is your Mom still out of town?

I just can't imagine having to go thru all of this on top of all the health issues you are having right now.

Well, you know I am here for you what ever you need..you can e-mail, pm or call me anytime night or day...thats the good thing about me is I am ALWAYS up..lol

Love ya!

Lisa


Speak kindly, Live simply, Care deeply, Love generously, and BLAH, HA, HA, LOUDLY! every chance you get.

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Lisa,
I am so so sorry to hear of this....putting your home on the market is heartbreaking and then hubby doing the jailtime....it's just too much for you!!

As unbelievable as it sounds I personally believe it happens. His ex is what I like to call a "weasel that knows the system". My mom and Robert have been together for over 6 years now. He was legally seperated for 1 1/2 before his divorce. She did everything she could. Claiming her little children were not paid child support. Mind you one was 22 the other 26 the other 27 and the youngest 16. She THEN turned around and claimed that they were seperated since 1988!!! So she could attempt to get MORE back child support. It was pure madness.

It gets worse. She stalked my mom and Robert even though she was living with her new boyfriend at the time and allowing all her grown children to stay there expense free at Roberts expense. He had receipts and everything....I believe it because I saw it myself. She stalked, harassed. Called my home from blocked calls. She was drunk most of the time....then when it would come time for court...she would come in with her oxygen tank because she says she has Lupus. I think its drug induced Lupus. I know Lupus is serious but this lady was out drinking and what nots till all hours and outright nuts and if you are on an oxygen tank and sick with Lupus you wouldnt be drinking like a sailor.

The last time they went to court she brought her WHOLE family in. The judge this time believed Robert and tossed out ALL her family except her. He was furious because she tried to turn it into a circus. Even when her then 16 yr old son got married and left home, she was STILL collecting disability checks on him and child support!! When Robert tried to get a restraining order the ladies at the courthouse treated him like dirt. Sure there are alot of dead beat dads out there...but there are also just as many dead beat mothers out there and she is one of them. He finally got it cleared up after getting an SSD attorney that heard his whole story and helped him out. It was a nightmare. So after all my rambling sorry to go on ...but believe me you are in my prayers Lisa....please hang in there....Buggie luvs you bunches you know that..and the girls send their love too.

Write when you can....I got a new cell phone so hopefully I can email some pics to my email addy and email them to you !!
luv ya' and please know you are not alone....


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Lisa,
Hang in there. We are all praying for you and your family. I know this must be very tough on you. I just hope the stress of all of this doesn't throw your AS into a downward spiral. Just know that we are here for you. If there is anything that I can do for you just let me know.

Debora

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This is like a horror story Lisa. I've never heard anything like it before. I wish I could tell you what to do to make things OK. All I can do is hope things get better, as surely they must.
Best wishes,
Tim.

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Hi Lisa,

I'm so sorry you have to go through such a nightmare. I don't know what to say. Everytime I write something it sounds lame, but I want you to know I'm thinking of you. I don't understand how people can be so hateful. How do they live with themselves?

Please take care and try not to stress too much.(See what I mean, that sounds lame, but I wanted to say it) Hugs, Wanda


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Hey Lisa

I am so sorry that this woman wont let you be....she is a miserable human, and you know what they say about misery....it loves company.

Continue to keep your chin up, and a smile on your face. Let her know that no matter what, she is not going to break you.

I wish that there was something I could do to help you. You know how to get in touch with me if you need me.

Love ya


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Lisa - Horrific. Hope this dire female gets her just deserts as soon as : they say 'What goes around comes around'. She'll pay for it.

Can't help you in any way, but sending positive thoughts: Strength to you and to your husband. You'll pull through this. Keep well and remember to rest, take time out (for you). OK?

Molly
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