Amina,
I know what you mean because we look fine everyone thinks we are fine. I feel awful much of the time and hurt all the time and fatigue is the worst. I've had a hard time getting everything done for the holidays and it's depressing.

Even my first rheumy said one day to an intern with him......she looks fine doesn't she?........she isn't. It was such a good feeling to have someone validate it.

hugs,

linda