Hi Aminia! I don't work outside the home, I've had the privilege of being a stay at home mom. I do understand though what you mean by people not understanding how you're feeling. We look "normal" for the most part, and fatigue and aches don't often show like bruises and broken bones. You will learn who your real friends are, and those who understand, or try to are the ones worth your time. I, like many others here, am grateful for this place as we truely understand one another, and in that we can take great comfort!! Bless you, Laura