Good topic.  I also am a hugger but I sometimes can't even stand for my hubby to hug me and he knows the gentle way to do it.  When someone at church sticks out their hand, I just take their hand in my left (my right one is the painful one) and I say "Sorry, at the moment I can't use my right hand." and then just go on with the conversation and usually it is never evened mentioned again.  I am very careful about handshaking anyway during cold and flu season.  I try to manage to have my hands full after church and I keep hand cleanser in my purse at all times.  That is the first thing I do after getting in the car is clean my hands.  I keep my gloves on in the winter in the stores with baskets.  I may sound paranoid but I have bronchiectasis and I can't handle lung infections. 

Blessings.
Possi 
