Lisa,

I am just at a loss as what to say!!!!

I thought Bill and I dealt with satan in his X, but I think your husband's X might have reached an all new low.

It was always "drama" when we were dealing with Sharon. We always paid the "child support" and I know about that living beyond your means and then coming back and trying to stick it to you again.

Our biggest problem was she always used Rachel as the "pawn" it hurt Bill and she knew it hurt Bill...that made me want to hurt her.

Even now that Rachel is 21 and "thank god" we haven't had to deal with her directly for 3 years now, she still reaks havoc where ever she goes.

4 years ago when her "then" husband had an affair on her she decided to abandon Rachel and her other son Mark ,was was only 12 at the time and become a stewardess so now she flies 3 out of the 4 weeks and has someone else raising her son (not his dad) poor Mark has been kicked out of school, and starting to get into trouble.

Now the biggie is Rachel called us and said her mother is kicking her and Ava out of the house. This makes SO much sense since Sharon is only home for a week a month. So now Rachel has to uproot Ava and find them both a place to live.

That sad thing is it will really never end. Every time she hurts Rachel and Ava it hurts us.

I dont know what else to say except I am sorry, I cant believe they think putting him in jail is actually going to help the situation.

I guess what I really can't believe is that there isnt someone that can help you.

PM me if you want to talk, we can trade horror stories..lol I am being serious surely there is something someone can do.

I will be talking to you,

Lisa

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