No matter how they want to mask it, anyone who responds that way because they cannot discern from merely looking at you that you have any medical problem are simply selfish people.

THey selfishly want to unberden themselves from offering care or concern to you (and you are not asking for it) by presuming that you are fabricating your condition. Not much more a selfish and rather lazy act you can conceive.

What they are saying is, I pronounce you are faking it so that I won't have to make any emotional investment at all.

You will never win over those people. NOt worth getting frustrated over their gross shortcomings.



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