Thank you Sandi for your reply. It is amazing to me that everyone has who is negative has a different background, rural, farmer's life, suburbs or city. My next rheumy visit, i'll try and pick his brain. I can relate on the migranes, I seemingly had one big migrane from 13 to 17. I wore glasses and thought that by not wearing them, I was paying the headache price. I would lie in bed and cry sometimes, I am very glad to see that your daughters Dx came early. I wouldn't be dianosised til my hip was ready to be replaced at 22! Hope to chat with ya soon, take care til then. JP