Wendy
sorry to hear of your troubles...
are you in a lot of pain?
if so the replacements will be an enormous benefit to you
THR type, cemented or cementless?
your surgeon will decide what is best for you.
with the cemented THR you are up on your feet a lot sooner and In general this type is more suited to the older ,less active patient.
with the cementless THR the recovery period takes a little longer but is more suited to the younger, more active patient, and is said to be a little more robust and easier to replace when it eventually wears out (hopefully in 20 odd years time)
epidural or general anaesthesia?
most surgeons would rather you chose the epidural option for quickness of recovery and the less chance of complications.
it's not for everyone being awake through the op as you are aware of everything and can here everything that's going on but you could request a sleeping tab and chances are you would sleep through most of it.
epidural wears off some hours later then comes the pain...morphine usually.
you will probably stay in bed all day for the first day then they will have you up and at it the next day. The first and second days are the days when the pain is at it's most intense, after that it gets easier day by day
I worked very hard for my THR pre op prog but underestimated the recovery work involved in the post op prog,it's hard work, but whatever effort you put it will determine the speed of your recovery
you will also require special injections every day and support stockings for 4/6 weeks
you will need help at home.do your exercises every single day. It's not easy but if you are in a lot of pain the benefits outweigh all the negatives.
All the pain I have carried with me for the past 10 years in my hip are GONE, all I have left is some manageable post op pain which I expect will last for some time yet
set yourself some goals everyday.... on the day after your op, use the walker
the next day use two crutches, the next one crutch
then two canes /one cane until you can fully weight bear on your "bad leg"....that's your first hip "done"

I am shocked to read you could wait up to two years for surgery.no one waits any more than 8/12 weeks for an op here
if you surgeon decided on the cementless approach I would be very surprised if he offered you the second THR in anything less than 3 months....it take time to heal
be prepared Wendy to put up a fight and give it your best shot. the elation you will feel on day 2 or 3 is something to behold.
on Tues it will be my 6th week post op.i can walk for miles with no pain but still require a single cane because of cementless op but every day I am getting stronger
wishing you the very best and hope all goes well for you.
drop me a PM if you have any concerns
John