Oh Michelle, I am so so sorry to hear that your Mum is in such grave condition. Hang in there, sweetie, it is amazing what people can recover from and you just never know, she may be able to pull through all of this.
If you want to go to her bedside Michelle, then go. I was at my Mom's beside everyday in ICU and then for nearly 3 months altogether, while on Remicade... sometimes I had to wear a mask and gloves and other times not, but I was fine. I was conscious of the risks and did think about it; I was very careful in using the hand sanitizer at the door to her room, every single time I went in and out. At one point she had C-Diff and before she was given a private room, the person next to her had some scary airborne infection but if you are mindful and careful, you can protect yourself. I realise you are on 2 different immuno suppressants however, and I am sure Possi is quite right that your Mom wouldn't want you putting yourself at risk. If your Mom will be aware of your presence.....
My love to you Michelle
