Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group Would you say anything to mean people?

i haven't figured out what to answer people either. My 'friends' attack my faith.. a very low blow....

well, you'd get healed if only you'd ...blah..bla...blah...

or you need to have more faith & quote these scriptures and BELIEVE them!

or .. you need to be praying more....


it sucks when i have a 6 yo daughter that is sick too & possibly my 9 yo... good grief! I now avoid them until I know better what to say! We've found a house-church that is small & very supportive & a place of no condemnation. Only caring & offering of help to babysit my brood while I go to an appointment. That's what I'm going to surround myself with. That and loneliness. I make myself depressed enough, I don't need 'friends' helping me get there!! LOL! I appreciate solitide (well, solitiude with homeschooling 5 kids!)

It's bad, though, when your doc treats you bad. Time to fire him, if you can!