Gerri,
Don't let others who can not see any problems or feel the pain you live with get to you. I will send you a pm later this afternoon or this evening. There are a lot of us who go through things like this, as I know I have for the last twenty years with friends, sister and her family, wife, oldest son and now the daugther. My youngest who just turned 20 and lives with me is the only one I can rely on and knows the problems are real.
Brent