no, I didn't take it personally Kat, not at all and I know you come from a good place...I know you, my friend...my point was that I think you're defending someone(out of the good of your pure heart) that has you fooled, the PMS that you suggest were attempted by several members here and if I'm not mistaken Admin has weighed in and asked this person very nicely to refrain repeatedly, in the open forum...but to absolutely no avail, this has been going on, you just haven't been 'targeted yet' because you haven't contradicted any of them yet...I suggest that you pull ALL of this person's posts up and see for yourself the nasty little remarks that began immediately upon arrival, it's been going on for 3 YEARS...have a look for yourself hon, you're defending the perp not the vic...that was my point, big hugs, I'm just exhausted with all of this nonsense...and you're damned straight that I will stand up for my friends too...you should know that, you've seen me do it in person...
