Michelle, I am so sorry to learn about your illness. I know I would be totally shook up by such a Dx. all I can say is I am here for you anytime you need a cyber shoulder to cry on.
If I were you, I would start a new discussion, telling all about your trip to the hospital and everything following, I am afraid that many people have tuned out on this discussion when the arguments started flying. Most of the people at KA don't have any idea about what you are going through.
I can't bear to see my friends tearing each other apart. I won't be reading anything more on this discussion.
