thanks Kat and everyone posting...I just want to say that although I am not around as much recently, I was here for many debates over the past ten years...and most often, people were in pain when posting...I was...and that can color the debate for sure...
we are here to rant and rave and receive support and advice and tell our own stories and learn....many people have come and gone over various debates, or because they felt better or worse...I miss them.....but remember that just because someone isn't posting does not mean they are not reading...your debates matter!! I read posts even though I may not log on for a month....we have thousands of members now who are in the same place I was way back when...
Peace
Linc