To amrh, I apologize to you. This should not have been your first intro to KA.
To anyone wanting to contribute further, I quoted part of the rights and responsiblities in my initial post. Please remember them. This is a heated issue and could go even more downhill. It clearly, however, needs to be discussed because there are obviously hurt feelings all over this. Frankly, I don't want things to continue as they have been here at KA, with veiled (and not-so-veiled) remarks against this, that or the other member, with factions forming and 'secret societies' based on who really does or doesn't have AS.
This issue has been underscoring everything for a long time, sometimes openly, sometimes hidden. It needs to be resolved. Openly. That means talking. Openly.
So, I ask, before you come on and blame others, or name names, or vent your spleen, think twice about your wording. We are all entitled to the same rights here at KA, but we must also be aware of our responsibilities.
Warm hugs,