Icky, as I've only been here a short while, I can't say I know your story, but I do know rib pain. And I want to say that it is refreshing to see a man that can share his feelings.
I have a very hard time sharing those kinds of days with anyone....as a result, people think I am so inspirational etc etc. If they only knew.
Good for you....and maybe you helped your doctor be a little more human.
We're here for you whenever you need to talk.
I do hope you feel better soon.
Leona

consider yourself hugged!
Love like a teddy bear, with imperfect eyesight and arms open wide.