Hi Kat
I think the Doctors are correct in saying you should put all this to your sister while she is in there care because they know how to treat her reaction. Allso she is protected and safe there so if he was to react badly to what is happening the Doctors can use this against him. If he gets nasty and he could because people with this illness cant stop themselves no matter where they are she is protected.I think it is right that the children live with your mother untill it is definate that he has gone for good. The problem is they tend to come back and unless he is certified Im afraid he will. You all have my deepest sympathy for what your going through please be carefull all of you. I would say this man is very unpredictable.
Kevin
