Kat,
Hey, where's my girl? It is ok to cry, it is ok to feel a bit sorry. think it through and then realize that by addressing the need to forgive and go on from here; she needs you. The girls need a healthy mom. Do not second guess yourself. I would take your help and sugestions. She has probably been beat down and will need time to think rationally.
You are not wrong in this, there will be other ups and downs. You are thinking correctly, save her from this bum. Maybe Lenny and I should come and talk to him a bit?? Ouch fire and smoke now blowing from my nose!
agape'
Lon
Her need to be loved by him is for now the strongest desire she has, but it is not healthy thinking...