I singed up for the Navy when I was younger, but I felt guilty for not disclosing my true health, the recruiter guy was pretty mad at me after I told the truth.
My parents are getting feeble, my dad is getting ready for knee surgery.
My daughter is doing well in college and we are doing good as a family. I blurt things out here sometimes as a release.
I managed to save a little money in a retirement account, and a pension, not enough to get excited about but enough to get my own place if need be. So for now, I will keep doing what is best for my daughter, as best I can.
Iam very fortunate to be in this bad situation.
I thank you all for the kinds words and the wisdom